I love you guys - you know that! But I can't pay to blog, and I especially can't pay to pay to blog. And if you've been paying attention, I've taken up home on Wordpress. Here is what you've missed since the news that Xanga may be closing, or at the very best will move to Wordpress and start charging:
I don't want to miss out on your stuff, and I hope you don't want to miss out on my stuff. Even if you stay with Xanga, I hope you follow me on Wordpress (you don't need an account to do that!) Find me here: mishie1.wordpress.com
And I wanted to let you all know, that I have had a Wordpress account for quite some time, where I post the same blogs that I do here (or at least I did for a while...all the extra run time having both accounts was taking up a lot of time).
So, I hope that I won't lose all of you guys and the great things you write about when whatever happens with Xanga happens.
I don't know how my blogging is going to change between now and the official "end" (read: Xanga isn't useful to me and Wordpress becomes my main account), but please, please, please...
Follow me on Wordpress.
If you have an account, find me. If you don't, make one and find me. Bookmark me. Whatever. I just don't want to lose touch with all of you wonderful people!
We've all been there. I like him, he likes her, she likes some other guy and we all end up just being friends with each other.
Or it's not even that complicated...you just get friend zoned. Or the equivalent (you know...you like him, he likes you, but no one says anything).
But when is enough enough? I've heard of people telling their love interests that it's either dating or not even friends, though I don't know if that is fair. Ultimatums are a fine line, regardless of what the conditions. Being "just friends" can be rough, though.
If I'm not good enough to be your girlfriend, why am I good enough to be a friend? My outlook on friendships and relationships does seem to be slightly unorthodox, so maybe this is just a product of that. I don't know.
When is it acceptable to say enough is enough, I can't be just your friend? Is that fair to either person? Have you ever given an ultimatum? What was it and how did it work out?